but Things Are Happening with the Maya fic (albeit slowly). So I NEED to write.
Good to hear.:)
I wonder about the people who manage to reduce their belongings to a dozen things or so. Do they really not own anything of sentimental value at all? No photo albums they've inherited from their grandparents? No gifts from friends? Nothing they keep around just because it's beautiful?
I've been wondering about that as well, quite a few times. I think it's usually people who don't get "attached", who live in the moment and are very aware of the transitory nature of existence. In some cases, this seems to apply both to materials possessions and people. I recently watched an interview with a writer who always makes sure that all her stuff fits in two suitcases - so that she doesn't "settle" anywhere. Characteristically, she has the same approach to friendships, which are usually connected to certain phases in her life. She has "a talk" and "breaks up" with friends, if she feels that phase is over (even if there hadn't been a conflict previously). For me, this is way too "extreme" - I guess the important thing is finding an individual balance between getting attached and not getting attached, a balance that works for you. Which, in my own experience, is anything but easy. Some people manage that by living by certain rules - such as, if you have acquired something new, you have to "pay" for that by getting rid of something old. I find all this incredibly hard, for some reason.;)
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Date: 2012-04-03 08:55 am (UTC)Good to hear.:)
I wonder about the people who manage to reduce their belongings to a dozen things or so. Do they really not own anything of sentimental value at all? No photo albums they've inherited from their grandparents? No gifts from friends? Nothing they keep around just because it's beautiful?
I've been wondering about that as well, quite a few times. I think it's usually people who don't get "attached", who live in the moment and are very aware of the transitory nature of existence. In some cases, this seems to apply both to materials possessions and people. I recently watched an interview with a writer who always makes sure that all her stuff fits in two suitcases - so that she doesn't "settle" anywhere. Characteristically, she has the same approach to friendships, which are usually connected to certain phases in her life. She has "a talk" and "breaks up" with friends, if she feels that phase is over (even if there hadn't been a conflict previously). For me, this is way too "extreme" - I guess the important thing is finding an individual balance between getting attached and not getting attached, a balance that works for you. Which, in my own experience, is anything but easy. Some people manage that by living by certain rules - such as, if you have acquired something new, you have to "pay" for that by getting rid of something old. I find all this incredibly hard, for some reason.;)