That's probably true. You have to start somewhere. Just because you're closer to some people, doesn't mean you'll have to ditch the rest. Focus on some people, and you'll find that it'll get easier to keep in touch with the rest, too. It just takes practice and time, really.
If you can't quite work it out yourself, there's no shame to take this to a therapist. He'll help you to keep your friends, so you won't lose them, but you'll have make start somewhere.
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Date: 2009-11-12 06:59 am (UTC)That's probably true. You have to start somewhere. Just because you're closer to some people, doesn't mean you'll have to ditch the rest. Focus on some people, and you'll find that it'll get easier to keep in touch with the rest, too. It just takes practice and time, really.
If you can't quite work it out yourself, there's no shame to take this to a therapist. He'll help you to keep your friends, so you won't lose them, but you'll have make start somewhere.